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Set protocol
The on-set rules that keep collaborations professional — communication norms, consent specificity, deal points that go in writing before anyone shoots.
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Paperwork
What a BDSM consent form actually says, section by section
A model release covers where the footage goes — not what happens on set while the camera rolls. The anatomy of the consent form, section by section.
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Set protocol
The check-in script I use before every scene (steal it for your first threesome)
Nobody publishes the actual words. So here's mine — the literal check in script before a threesome that we run on set, turned into something you can say in your own bedroom: the green/yellow/red list, the safe word, what's off-limits tonight, and how to tap out without it feeling like you failed.
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Threesome
What we do when the camera stops: the aftercare couples skip
Aftercare after a threesome is the part nobody films and most couples forget. It's literally my job on set. Here's the real debrief — the immediate care, the honest round, and the next-day re-check when the high fades and the jealousy backwash hits.
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Set protocol
How a scene actually gets negotiated before anyone undresses
Not on the list means not happening. Here's the real pre-scene negotiation I run as a self-producer — the no-list, the yes-list, the safe word, and the mid-scene check-in.
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Male performers
How to become a male performer in the adult industry
Becoming a male performer in adult is mostly business: marketing, paperwork, professional conduct. The on-camera sex is the smallest part of the job.
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Male performers
The male performer's playbook for AVN, Exxxotica, and expos
How to work AVN, Exxxotica, and adult industry expos as a male performer: booking discipline, test protocol, performance reliability, event-week rules.
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Scene production
What actually goes into a scene (the SFW version)
Most of what makes a good scene happens before anyone takes their clothes off. Here's the unglamorous, business-side look at how it all gets built.
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Collaboration
How I pick collaborators (and what I look for in a co-star)
I get a lot of collab requests. Here's the actual checklist I run before saying yes — and the green and red flags I've learned to read fast.
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