The Average Guy's Guide to Getting Into Adult Content
Starting out, getting collabs, and the paperwork. A 75-page ebook, $4.99.
Men ask me the same few things: how I got started, how they can start, and how I get collabs. This book is my answer, from an average guy a little further down the road.
I'm a big guy, not a gym body. I opened my first account in February 2025 and shot my first professional scene in October 2025. Before that, I spent years writing and reviewing contracts in a different industry and running businesses, which is why so much of this book is about paperwork.
Get the book on ManyVids, $4.99A PDF you download from my ManyVids store. Nothing explicit, no promises of easy money, and I'm not a lawyer.
What's inside
- Before you start. How I got in, what the work is (mostly business), five myths worth dropping, and your first 90 days.
- Getting collabs. Who I shoot with and how I pick, how to ask, asking people bigger than you and taking the no, being easy to work with, and the red flags in agency DMs.
- Paperwork. The first-collab checklist, 2257 records, what goes in a collab agreement, cancellations, what to do when a co-star won't show ID or sign, and how to read an AI clause.
Ready to use in the book
- Message templates for asking, replying to a rate, and taking a no.
- A one-page paperwork checklist.
- A first-90-days checklist.
Read a sample
The book grew out of posts on this site. These three are free to read and show how it's written.
- The first 90 days in the adult industry, starting from zero
- How to ask a creator to collab without getting ignored
- The first-collab paperwork checklist: every document, in the order you'll actually need it
The whole reading order, free, is on the guide page.