Jealousy and compersion
Jealousy when your partner is with someone else by agreement, and compersion, the pleasure in theirs. What I've felt as a watcher, and why the two run side by side.
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What does compersion mean?
Compersion is pleasure at your partner's pleasure with someone else: not tolerating it, enjoying that it's happening. The word came out of the polyamory community. It often gets called the opposite of jealousy, but in what I've felt the two aren't on one dial.
I'm not a therapist; this is what I've felt, not a technique. Watching my own partners, I've had nights where the main feeling was heat and something sharp still ran underneath. Jealousy doesn't vanish in this life. It changes shape, and compersion stands next to it.
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